In my school days, I played on a collegiate soccer team where you were expected to “sacrifice your body” for the good of the team. I was playing as a left forward. During a game, a fellow team mate kicked a high long pass.I went after the pass as fast as I could down the left line. I caught the ball and before I had time to think a defender had swept me off. I was thrown into the air and off the sideline. I was severely injured and taken out of the game by the coaching staff. Later, when my body had cooled off, I was in terrible pain and in complete shock. My injury was so severe that I had physical therapy for over 9 months.
Pain plays an important part in our lives even if don’t want it. But when the pain is so severe our body goes into shock. This shock or “numbness” has interrupted the unity of the body. Pain is also important to pay attention to in the spiritual reality.
There are cries of pain from the Body of Christ. The unemployed, the divorced, the widowed, the bedridden, the sick, the lonely, the grieving, and the aged have all experience pain. What do we do when we hear those cries? Do we ignore them? Or, like physical pain in the body, are we to pay attention to those cries, and help bring healing to the Body?
The Bible is clear. We are to bear one another’s burdens. That’s a part of what it means for us to be a Community of faith. We are to comfort others as Christ has given comfort to us. Your hard time becomes my hard time. We join hands in the journey. When you suffer, I suffer. But we do it together. We share it together. And we do it, not so much in our wisdom or our words, but in our availability, our understanding, and through our presence.
We are called to bear one another’s burdens. To mourn with those who mourn. To be a follower of Jesus means to come alongside people who are hurting and find ways to help them walk even through the valley of the shadow of death. We are called to do this.
The truth of the matter is there is very little we can do or say to “fix” someone’s problems or change the circumstances that have caused his or her suffering. But there ARE specific things we can do that will help them survive the pain.
So how can we help a hurting friend?
**Be present**
I sometimes visit people in Los Ranchos Rehabilitation Center and wonder:
What can I say right now? What am I supposed to do to help take their pain away or at least ease their suffering?
After years of thinking about that I’ve come to the conclusion that there are no words for that. You can’t reverse what has happened in their life. You’re not going to have the magic words. In fact, what I’ve found is that the most significant thing you can do to bring healing in their lives is not to say anything at all, but just to be there. Just to be present in the room with folks who are hurting is an act of grace. They remember that. Very often they do not want you to say anything other than: “I care about you. I love you. I’m hurting for you. I’m crying with you.” “I’m praying for you” And that’s all we can do!
Remember, we can’t fix their problem. We’re not Jesus . God is the healer. God brings the restoration to their lives. But we can be His hands of comfort and encouragement. When God wants to hug someone, He always sends one of his followers to put His arms around them.
The apostle Paul wrote these words to the church in Corinth: “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (1 Corinthians 1.3-4).
Sometimes God intervenes with direct miracles, providences, or giving supernatural strength to those in need. But for the most part, He relies on us His hands and feet, His chosen people here at FPC, to do His work in the world. We love each other, work for healing, and suffer with those who suffer.

The next time you find yourself in a hard place, searching for comfort, and wondering where God is, Jesus may invite you to look around your church family and find His warm embrace here with us at FPC “your church family.” The next time you see a friend, a brother or sister who is suffering, Jesus may just invite you to be the warm embrace!
We comfort each other with the comfort we have received in Christ and I’m 100% sure God has place a name in your heart like He did in mine. Let’s listen to His voice and when we do comfort someone, we become the Body of Christ and He receives the glory!
George
DYM